the answer is in this little book

how to build your very own defense mechanism:

so if you don't have a job or hate the one you have--the fact of it, the simple time-and-life-sucking fact of it--, you might find yourself diminishing in your mind the importance of said career and/or money-making situation.

there is no reality, only perception, says dr. phil, and so the fact that you don't have a job or hate your job or either way are always looking for a new job only acquires heavy weight if you assign it that weight.

if you assign it a lesser weight, or best of all a happily oblivious weightlessness, then your stress level about the No-Job or the Bad Job therefore decreases, diminishes, and then is gone.

bye bye.
okay, bye bye now.

--a deep thought brought to you by penelope